Why United Kingdom people for Christmas as difficulties? _BBC perspective on UK

Hi, I'm the BBC UK NET suping. United Kingdom people a lot like Christmas, Chinese new year. Men worry red envelope, woman, tired of the housework. Boys worry was interrogated the family have a girlfriend, girls are afraid of relatives and friends then sigh when married. Dissatisfaction with the performance of last year, the prospects for the coming year; shear constantly worry about the person under an obligation, the mess of large bills ... No wonder, when approaching the dish will be someone. Christmas is also a "battle". Harmonious lost, family feud, wife and I've counted, and turkeys, La guns, is essential in the Festival. This stage, everyone needs decompression! jaws of death of husband and wife relationship? mention Christmas, people mind often emerges a make the person heart movement: snow Street, glittering gifts, colored lights flashing Christmas tree; vaguely elegant Christmas songs. The air is full of love. Hear here, if your eyes began to damp, a seasonal statistics will give you a pledge doused in cold water. At this time of the year will appear on the media to a series of surveys and reports, the Christmas described as husband and wife's "JAWS". During the Festival, many partners are aware that can't stand and other common life, new year, dive into the Law Office, waiting in line. I'll give you a look at the figures for the first three years. The end of 2007, "divorce Insider" company (Insidedivorce) and Government-funded "family mediation hotline" commissioned a survey results let me drop spectacles: 180 million couples during the festive season ever want to divorce! at that time, the times also has an article said that "as much as one fifth of the partner in the stand out of Christmas stress after consulting divorce." 2009, January 4, known as the relationship of husband and wife's "d-day". Brings together 100 divorce law firm Web site survey shows, consulting case of the "surge", an increase of one third. (Colored lights flashing Christmas tree) statistics from this year's "online divorce" (Divorce-online.co.uk). In late November, they asked about 1560 adults, of which one quarter acknowledged that Christmas and partner relations more tense, deterioration (women 26%, 22% for males), 16% of the people and partners quarrel, considered divorce; 9% experienced rupture; 8% in order to have a "break in" the Chan's thoughts aside. False declaration of military intelligence, business? listening that, if your eyes began to damp, don't worry. There are quite a number of commentators said that this is only the divorce industry lied about military intelligence in order to attract business. Official statistics show that the United Kingdom, approximately 1 million on the partner. If you have one, or even one-tenth of the considered divorce, law firm, not crowded broken head? economic slump may be to increase tension in the Festival. However, difficult times divorced price higher and more difficult. For example, the price plummeted in the last two years, the couple to divorce, separation of property was not much left. Analysis out the consequences, and possibly continue to grin and bear it. During the Festival, there were very few real news, public relations firms, media to find a story that captivates the audience, and no natural disasters, man-made disaster only own manufacturing. "Good news" who love listening to? "the Crown" United Kingdom Statistics Department never collects information about the Festival and there is no relationship between divorce. Therefore, say that Christmas is the jaws of the marital relationship, should not be any "factual basis". "Pressure is meant" (receive/send gift value does not match, spend too much money. ) Now, more and more religious meaning of Christmas, beautiful people downplay expectations and family reunification of components is increasing. United Kingdom one relationship expert ridiculed, festive not issued a word of complaint, not a back gas, only the Saints can do it! received/sent out of the gift value does not match, spend too much money, children out, big boy aphasia, father-in-law, mother-in-law tough/husband/wife too lazy, Turkey roasted heat of the moment, the guest only vegetarian ... These little things in the usual spots, in a perfect Christmas background against which is infinite zoom. Unlucky again said, in fact also remind ourselves and everyone that holiday remember decompression. Here on selling my nose a few tricks. Lowering expectations: advisory services firm "parents hotline" placate that perfect Christmas does not exist. Do you think of your own home is filled with gunpowder, SB or not to go! don't always think meet everyone's requirements, shoulder carrying such pressure, who will fall. Attitude: psychology professor Robert · Altman believes that Stress-stress, pressure, and 50% upon yourselves, positive, good attitude, can help reduce the pressure of the "predictable". He said that Christmas is most important that everyone can relax and enjoy. No matter where you make a mistake, no matter what's wrong, it may be seen as a joke, but not a disaster. With the right attitude, equal to half the battle won. Eat Sleep: nutritionist said, eat too much, especially the desserts, diet, excessive drinking, will interfere with the digestive system, affects the skin State, sleep, blood sugar levels, and thus about emotions, make people more angry, out of control. The subliminal message you kanzhao! sports events: the annual Christmas day, joints, no matter how cold it was, my mother-in-law had insisted on the whole family together, to the door behind the Hill looks for two hours! apart from a breath of fresh air, aiding digestion, nature also gives everyone more space and freedom to trance. I like to do. Each year, to draw a Excel lists all tasks that use different colors to indicate the status of important,. One year, home to many people, doing "ahead of time for cooking some kind of timetable": put the Turkey in which the oven, at what time to turn over steamed potatoes, and so on, full program pudding are implemented to the letter. Who sing, always a meal to a loss of her husband, on Christmas day suddenly look so errors, to help clean up the kitchen, all of a sudden, they took my watch to throw! you say, how did this day is also celebrated as clearance?!, but it is also just a few days. It was occupied remote control? simply buy a TV set, much cheaper than divorce! you on this article? welcome comment threads. Click here to browse our BBC England network for ChristmasContent. http://www.bbc.co.uk/ukchina/simp/index.shtml